It's in there, somewhere

I have a friend who is smart, funny, and generally just a good human being.  She thinks about other's, tries to impart happiness, and is not generally judgemental... except with herself, and on that one thing, she is so harsh, it is nearly impossible for her to live up to her own expectations.  Here's the rub, that makes it nearly impossible for her to find much happiness because something is not quite right.  Are you that person?  Do you know someone who is?  I want to tell her she is really great just as she is and she deserves as much happiness as anyone.  She needs to just chill and know she is doing her very best and, yes, that happiness is inside her.  If you know someone like this, don't give up on them, even though they might wear you out sometimes.  Make a ripple, shine the light, see what happens.