What?

Over the years, I have heard "just change your mind."  Simplistic isn't it!  What I've found to be true, more often than not, is that I can decide to change my mind, then go about my life. At a certain time, like any tipping point,it suddenly becomes easy to change it!  It happens from the combination of expecting one thing and being willing to let go of another. That's all the information I can give you, but I'm living proof it can happen. Just like playing with silly putty, you become malleable enough to become what you seek.  Make a ripple,become flexible, see what happens.