We all fail

and no one likes to.  The truth is, some of our best lessons come from failure.  Look at Thomas Edison, how many times did he fail?  In fact, if we looked at some of the best minds ever, they failed more times than they could count.  It isn't the failing that counts, it is the getting up and trying again.  I personally don't like the word "fail,"  probably because of it's connotation, but I do know that when things don't turn out the way I want or expect them to, the only way I fail is if I decide to quit trying.