If you keep doing

the same thing over and over with the same results, expecting something different, we know what that makes you!  I believe the term is "CRA CRA!" Just trying to soften up the blow.  As one who seems to do this thing, I have come to the realization that however a person might find "comfort in their discomfort" it still doesn't change things.  So it is a new year, the sun is out for the first time in a week, and I am going to to dip my toe in the waters of "let's do this a different way!"  Make a ripple, join me, and see what happens.